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“What the Chicken Knows: A New Appreciation of the World’s Most Familiar Bird” by Sy Montgomery
c.2024, Atria Books
$22.99  71 pages

Every day, you and your closest lady-friends have a good old-fashioned hen party.

It’s never too formal. You’re happy just winging it as you gather and gossip, squawking about this subject and pecking at that one. Life ruffles your feathers a whole lot less after you’ve cackled at each other’s jokes and crowed at your triumphs. As in “What the Chicken Knows” by Sy Montgomery, time with your ladies is pretty clucking great.

It’s not often that it happens, but when Sy Montgomery needed a rooster expert, she was happy to find one almost right next door.

The problem was that Montgomery’s pet rooster had gotten aggressive. Ashley, the expert, advised Montgomery to do the unthinkable: pick up the creature with scimitar-like claws and cuddle him.

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Santa’s at the door! Merry Christmas, everyone, happy holidays. Enjoy some freebies and deep discounts at the Smashwords Year End Sale!

All of my ebooks – you heard that right, all of them – are available for free download at Smashwords from December 12 – January 1. That includes:

6 Kyle Callahan Mysteries
3 Marshall James Thrillers
2 Maggie Dahl Mysteries

Can you say “up all night?” It will take a lot of those sleepless evenings to get through all these page-turners.

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Narration provided by Wondervox.

By Mark McNease

I love getting rewards for the money I spend, and I have to put a word in for the Venmo credit and debit cards. I’ve been using an Amazon Chase card for years, and while I like the money I get from it credited to my Amazon account, I really like the rush of a monthly cash deposit. Costco, too, is good to have, but they pay out once a year!

I’ve been using Venmo for a few years to pay our cat sitter and send money to people, as well as getting paid for workshops and books. It was only a few months ago that I got pitched the Venmo credit card with a promotion for $200 cash back if I spent $1000 in six months. It sounded too good to be true, but it wasn’t! I hit my required amount in just a few months, and one day there was $200 in the account, which I promptly transferred to my bank. (There’s something ‘rewarding’ about putting the money in the bank instead of using it to spend more money with the card. I also keep these amounts on a spreadsheet so I can track how much I’m getting each month.)

Now I find myself with an extra $20 to $100 a month, which is terrific. It’s one of the more generous cash back programs out there, and I recently added to it by getting the Venmo debit card. I just signed up for that a few weeks ago and already earned $19.75, sent off to my checking account within minutes.

There are a lot of options out there. If you’re like me and you never carry a balance (I haven’t paid interest in many years) these are a great way to get something for the money you spend.

Some ideas tailored to senior

As we look to make the most of our finances, choosing the right credit card can significantly enhance our purchasing power and provide valuable rewards. With a variety of options available, it’s crucial to select a card that aligns with our spending habits and lifestyle preferences. Here’s a roundup of some of the best rewards cards for seniors—but also good for anyone!

VENMO! See my own experience with this above.

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By Mark McNease

It’s that time again when those of us who choose to buy Christmas presents try to figure out what to give people. I only buy presents for my husband Frank and my sister Cathy. With Cathy, I collect small things throughout  the year and then send them all in a box, which I’ll be shipping off tomorrow. For Frank, it’s always some more clothes and trying to figure out what to get someone who always says “I don’t need anything.” I believe in paring it back as the years pass. We’re at a time in our lives when we want to get rid of things, not add to them. And I try to be budget conscious. Here are some suggestions for keeping an eye on the gift bills.

Budget-Conscious Ways to Celebrate Christmas

Christmas is a wonderful time of the year, filled with joy, love, and togetherness. However, it can also become overwhelmingly expensive. With thoughtful planning and creativity, you can have a festive celebration without breaking the bank. Here are some budget-conscious ways to enjoy the holiday season.

Set a Budget

Start by determining how much you can realistically spend on Christmas. Having a clear budget will help you make informed decisions about gifts, decorations, and activities without overspending.

Did I mention I love my job? Another client satisfied!

A Normal American Life, by Robert Montagnese

If the currency of life is time, then the currency of truly living is making decisions.

Meet Katie and Claire, two young girls living in the Midwest who are about to graduate high school.  On that one warm Spring Day, they decide to skip classes to go to the lake; a rumor spreads not based on any facts but rather a perception.  It is the end of innocence as previously embraced and the start of truly living, and the clock ticks.  There is an enormous world to discover beyond small-town people and their gossip.

A Normal American Life is a bar set high by how deeply you can go within to define yourself and live by those standards.  It is a story about people using words to demonize and promote their own skewed beliefs.  It’s also a tale about small-town traditions and beliefs, both good and bad.  The characters are universal, and they all come from Elkhart, Indiana.  Welcome to this America, the land of the free, if you look, talk, and live your life like a “normal” American.

The author, Robert Montagnese, brings a unique perspective to this narrative. Growing up in a small town in Connecticut, he remembers the turbulent late 1960s and the rapid changes of the 1970s. A bell-bottom boy in platform shoes, he ventured out to explore the world, learning quickly that what sometimes feels normal may not be normal to others.

This is Robert’s 4^th novel.  His career in beauty marketing provided a deeper insight into women and their worth, which is the heart of this new novel.  Robert moved to NYC to start his career as an OR Nurse at New York Hospital and completed it as the Global Brand Director for L’Oréal years later.  Along the way, his interest in writing became a reality with his first collection of short stories about influential women in his life, Lucky 7.  Praise for Lucky 7 encouraged him to continue with a new-found passion for storytelling, leading to his latest, A Normal American Life.  Robert happily resides in NYC with his partner John, of 30-plus years, and a new puppy, Patrick II.

Join co-hosts Mark McNease and Rick Rose for our enthusiastic, two-brooms-up review of Wicked, a hearty welcome to fellow traveler Khalid, and some turkey talk after the pie’s all gone.

Three workshop intensives in one package: Fiction Writing Essentials, followed by Character Creation, and concluding with Self-Publishing with KDP (Kindle Direct Publishing. Each of these is a separate workshop, being offered together for three Mondays in March – and at a savings! Join Mark and the other participants to learn the essentials of writing fiction, how to create characters who will step off your mind onto the page, and how to publish your work yourself as an independent author.

You can see workshop descriptions at YourWritePath.com, address any questions to YourWritePath AT Outlook. com.

WHEN: 3 Mondays in March (3, 10, 17)
TIME: 10:00 am – 12:00 pm eastern
VIA ZOOM
REGISTER HERE ($100)

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By Jim Miller

Dear Savvy Senior,

My dad has dementia and has gotten to the point that he can’t live at home any longer. I need to find a good memory care residential facility for him but don’t know where to turn. Any suggestions?

Only Daughter

Dear Only,

Choosing a good memory care residential unit for a loved one with dementia is a very important decision that requires careful evaluation and some homework.

Most memory care units, sometimes called special care units, are housed within assisted living or nursing home facilities. At their best, they offer staff extensively trained in caring for people with dementia, individualized care that minimizes the use of dangerous psychotropic drugs, a home-like environment and activities that improve resident’s quality of life. But at their worst, they can offer little more than a locked door. Here are some steps that can help you find a good facility and avoid a bad one.

Really excited to schedule my first workshop with Soupcon, a local artists’ collective in Lambertville, NJ, for February. And it’s at my favorite venue, Bucks on Bridge, where Soupcon has sublet the art space. I’ve done book readings and workshops there prior to this, and it’s so nice to have a space and community to pursue in-person workshops with.

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I finally took the plunge with Ancestry.com. Now that I’m doing workshops on autobiographical and legacy writing, I decided to explore my family tree. I was confused about this for a long time because I’m adopted, but I realized I want to know about the family I grew up with, the people I remember and who shaped me. Seeing my parents and grandparents on this is kind of emotional.

My ‘origin story’ is complicated, with a birth family I’m in contact with and have some relationships with, and my adoptive family. The people I have always referred to as Mom and Dad are the couple who raised me. I was not told about my adoption until I was 17, which erased any memories I may have had from the first two years of my life. All these decades later, as people got into charting their family trees and their ancestry, I felt ambivalent to say the least: which family is my family? I finally decided, for the purpose of a family tree, that it is the family I grew up with, the parents whose lives I shared until their deaths, the grandmothers I remember from childhood. They are my heart, spirit and blood.

So … here we go. This is going to be interesting.

About Family Trees

Uncovering Your Roots: The Joy of Researching Family Trees

Researching family trees can be an exciting and enriching journey that connects us to our past, provides insight into our heritage, and fosters a deeper understanding of who we are. Whether you’re a seasoned genealogist or just starting out, the process of tracing your lineage can bring unexpected discoveries and lasting connections. For someone like me who is adopted and not able  to really consider my birth family as my family tree, other then my parents and siblings, it took a long time to reconcile my feelings about this and realize that my interest in ancestry is not about blood. I am a McNease, the son of Margaret  Witmer and Emmett McNease. That is my starting place. All of these suggestions are optional. I’m not a “family stories” kind of person, and there will be a lot of popular things I choose not to do.