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  • Health Beat

    Health Beat: Macular Degeneration – What It Is and How to Treat It

    Health Beat is a feature at LGBTSr highlighting health and wellness

    More than one person in my life has macular degeneration, and my late mother suffered from it years ago when its treatment was less sophisticated and effective. Today it can be slowed and, depending on its progression, treated well enough to prevent serious vision loss. So what is macular degeneration? What causes it, and what can we do about it?

    Understanding Macular Degeneration and Its Treatments

    Macular degeneration, often referred to as age-related macular degeneration (AMD), is a common eye condition that affects millions of individuals globally, particularly those over the age of 50. It’s a progressive disease that attacks the macula, the central part of the retina responsible for sharp, detailed vision. As a result, AMD can severely impair your ability to perform everyday tasks such as reading, driving, and recognizing faces. Despite its prevalence, many people remain unaware of the condition and the various treatments available to manage its progression.

    Types of Macular Degeneration

    Macular degeneration is categorized into two main types: dry (atrophic) and wet (neovascular) AMD.

    Dry AMD: This form is more common, accounting for approximately 85-90% of cases. It occurs when the macula thins over time, leading to gradual vision loss. The hallmark of dry AMD is the presence of drusen, yellow deposits beneath the retina.

    Wet AMD: Though less common, wet AMD is more severe and can lead to rapid vision loss. It occurs when abnormal blood vessels grow under the retina and macula, causing bleeding, leaking, and scarring. Wet AMD can develop suddenly and requires prompt medical attention.

  • LGBTSR

    Client Book Just Published: The Wildflowers Within Her Heart (Poetry), by Tara Elizabeth Benedetti

    One of the most rewarding things about working with people to publish their books is that I’m helping them achieve a goal. In this case, a mother’s desire to publish her daughter’s poetry. It was a labor of love for her, and I was able to help her bring it to fruition. Keep reading to understand why it matters to her, and why I feel privileged to help birth this gift from a mother to her beloved but challenged adult child.

    The Wildflowers Within Her Heart

    Tara Elizabeth Benedetti has written poetry since she was a young girl. Tara wrote a poem when she was 10 years old, in the 5th grade, and it was published when she was 12, in the 7th grade.

    The poem “My Windows” was published in the 1993 Edition of the book “Anthology of Poetry by Young Americans.”

    Tara was encouraged by her teachers beginning in the 5th grade, and it was always pointed out that she had a profound and rich imagination – the part that can’t be taught.

    Tara graduated from Summit High School, in Summit, New Jersey. She obtained a B.A. Degree in Creative Writing and Photo Journalism, at the University of Massachusetts, Amherst, Massachusetts. She has a Master’s Degree in Creative Writing from Fairleigh Dickenson University in Madison, New Jersey.

    Tara was diagnosed with schizophrenia when she was 28 years old, while teaching English in Boston. It has been 16 ½ years of a struggle for Tara. She is now 44 years old. All of her poetry was written before Tara was diagnosed with schizophrenia.

  • LGBTSR

    Health Beat: Eli Lilly’s Zepbound (Tirzepatide) No Longer In Shortage (And Why It Matters)

    Health Beat is a feature at LGBTSr highlighting health news and issues.

    The good news: I’ve lost 24 pounds,  with another 20 to go, using Tirzepatide. I’m not arguing for or against using weight loss medication, but after more than a decade of needing to lose some serious weight I’ve finally been able to do it.

    The not-so-good news: It’s very expensive for those of us who have to pay the full cost out of pocket. As a Medicare recipient, it’s not covered, unless you have some serious underlying health condition. Eventually this may change, because a lot of expensive medical issues arise from obesity and it would be more affordable for Medicare (and the supplemental health and drug insurance plans) to cover these than to pay the exorbitant costs of heart disease and other serious weight-related illnesses.

  • Podcast Pick

    Podcast Pick: The Golden Girls Deep Dive with Patrick Hinds and Jennifer Simard

    Podcast Pick: The Golden Girls Deep Dive

    Frank and I listened to an episode of The Golden Girls Deep Dive Podcast with Patrick Hinds and Jennifer Simard in the car driving back from Provincetown this year. I love this show! It’s going to be my treadmill podcast once it’s too cold, or dark too early, to walk outside. Give it a listen.

    About the Podcast

    Starting with the pilot episode and going in order, each week hosts Patrick Hinds (True Crime Obsessed) and Jennifer Simard (two-time Tony Award nominee) will recap an episode – infusing their commentary with humor and tons of trivia you probably didn’t know about the show. 

    Each episode will end with a fascinating deep dive into something from The Golden Girls universe. For example, did you know that the actor who plays Coco the chef in the pilot episode vanished 35 years later and then was found dead under very mysterious circumstances? And did you know that the actress who played Blanche’s sister Virginia was hired by 20th Century Fox in the 1950s as a replacement for – and a warning to – an “increasingly unreliable” Marilyn Monroe?

  • On the Map

    On the Map: A Trip to Eastern State Penitentiary and the Barnes Museum, Philadelphia

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    On the Map is a feature at LGBTSr for the not-so-weary traveler. 

    We took the train to Philadelphia with our friends Beth and Doris for a day of sightseeing and lunch at the Barnes Foundation museum. First stop: Eastern State Penitentiary, which was open for over 140 years, from 1829 until 1971! It was started by the Quakers and revolutionized incarceration at the time. It was the first to confine every prisoner in a single cell – today known as solitary confinement and a huge contributor to mental illness among the incarcerated. Back then they thought it was a better way to rehabilitate prisoners. They were allowed nothing to read but the bible, and they spent 23 hours a day alone in their cells. This could be something the architects of Project 2025 may want to look into …

    After touring Donald Trump’s future lifestyle, we walked over to the Barnes Foundation museum, where we saw an art collection that is among the most unique in the world. I have never imagined seeing so many Cezannes, Picassos, and other modern masters in one location. Dr. Albert Barnes was an astute collector, purchasing works by artists in their un-famous prime that would later be with tens of millions of dollars.

  • LGBTSR

    Lambertville, NJ, America’s Halloween Town!

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    Lambertville, NJ, is my favorite town! It’s only about 20 minutes from our little house in the woods, and it’s America’s Halloween capital. For years now the neighbors on Union Street and elsewhere have made somewhat of a competition (okay, maybe a HUGE competition) out of decorating their houses for Halloween. People come from miles around the stroll along, or drive slowly past, the extravagant displays. The street itself is closed off on Halloween night and thousands of people gather for the festivities. It’s a must-see if you’re in the area.

  • Savvy Senior

    Savvy Senior: How to Arrange Your Own Cremation Service

    By Jim Miller

    Dear Savvy Senior,

    I would like to arrange a simple cremation that doesn’t cost me, or my family, a lot of money. Can you offer any tips that can help me with this?

    Still Kicking 

    Dear Kicking,

    If you’re looking for a simple and affordable way to go, cremation is an excellent choice, and one that’s become exceedingly popular in the United States. About 60 percent of Americans are now choosing cremation over a traditional burial, versus only around 20 percent in the mid-1990s.

    Why the big shift? Price is a key reason. A basic cremation can cost as little as $700 to $1,200, depending on your location and provider, versus $7,500 or more for a traditional funeral and cemetery burial. Geography is another factor, as many families are spread across the country, making future gravesite visits less common.

    Here are a few tips to help you arrange your cremation and ensure you get a good deal.

    Shop Around

    You can arrange a cremation through a funeral home or a cremation-only business, but it’s wise to shop around because prices vary widely. It’s not unusual for one funeral home to charge $1,000, while another charges $4,000 or more for the same service.

  • LGBTSR,  Savvy Senior

    Savvy Senior: Does Medicare Cover Cataract Surgery?


    By Jim Miller

    Dear Savvy Senior,

    How does Medicare cover cataract surgery? My eye doctor recently told me I’ve developed cataracts and should consider making plans for surgery in the next year or so.

    Almost 67

    Dear Almost,

    Like gray hair and wrinkles, cataracts are an inevitable part of the aging process. Eventually, everyone (usually in their 60s) will develop cataracts, a condition that causes cloudy or blurry vision. The only way to correct this is through cataract surgery.