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    One Thing or Another: An Economy to Die For


    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    Have a grandparent to spare? Now’s your chance to volunteer one in sacrifice to the economy. All positions available!

    Who needs old people, really? What do they do besides eat, talk about how hard it is to get old, drive RVs across the country, and bother people with questions about the simplest techie things? Think of all the good use they could be put to as frontline workers in the apocalypse.

    That’s the thinking in certain conservative circles these days. The Lieutenant Governor of Texas, Dan Patrick, started the doomsday ball rolling when he said he’d be willing to work to save the economy for his grandchildren. I wasn’t aware he hadn’t worked before, or that he wasn’t getting paid while he sat around saying these things, but that’s another matter. The idea caught fire, especially among wealthy pundits and Republicans who have never been, and will never be, essential workers … like grocery store clerks, nurses, police officers, and baristas. Something tells me they know they won’t actually have to risk their lives for their grandchildren, but it sounds heroic. Things that sound heroic but have no chance of happening are favorites with men who fancy themselves soldiers, having avoided any real wars. It’s cool to say you’ll take a bullet, especially for future generations, when the gun’s empty.

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    From the Podcast Archives with Herbalist Cathy McNease: Let’s Talk About Arthritis

    Our library here is chock full of great interviews, and among my favorites are my chats with herbalist Cathy McNease. In this podcast she talks about arthritis – what it is, its causes and, of course, its treatments. Let’s listen in …

    Cathy McNease is a nationally certified herbalist with a Diplomate in Chinese Herbology from the NCCAOM, a B.S. in Biology and Psychology from Western Michigan University and two Master Herbalist certificates from Emerson College of Herbology in Canada and East-West Course of Herbology in Santa Cruz.

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    Bruce Halford, Freelance Producer, Writer and Director, Joins the One Thing or Another Podcast

    Listen in as I chat with Bruce Halford, Executive Producer and founder of Husky TV, about his life and career. Bruce is a freelance producer, writer and director specializing for the past 20+ years in fact-based television shows and documentaries, based in both New Jersey and Los Angeles. He remains involved in partnerships to create and pitch program concepts.

    About Bruce Halford:

    Bruce worked in local TV news in the 1990s as a News Director at the Fox-owned station on Dallas-Ft. Worth, and an Assistant News Director at KYW-TV in Philadelphia.

    Before that he worked in Los Angeles producing and directing magazine-format TV series; he also produced, wrote and directed various freelance TV programs and segments, including an award-winning documentary for the 25th anniversary of the JFK assassination

    Still earlier, Bruce was an on-air TV reporter in Dallas-Ft. Worth, Atlanta and Houston.

    His first job in the business, while in college, was as an on-air reporter for CBS radio affiliate in Houston.

    Bruce is in the final stages of wrangling his first e-book novel onto Amazon. Fasten your headphones!

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    One Thing or Another: Panic in Aisle 9

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    This one’s for posterity, since the terms ‘coronavirus’ and ‘covid-19’ will hopefully be behind us in a few months.

    Who needs that much toilet paper, seriously? I can understand a couple of 12-packs, but an entire shopping cart? Are these people planning on being housebound for the next month? And what do they expect the rest of us to do—the ones who don’t think filling our garage with paper products is the best use of resources at a time of national crisis?

    I’m not one to take a pandemic lightly. Not only am I at the age most ripe for paying the steep price of negligence, but I care about my friends, neighbors and co-workers. A good Corona beer joke seemed acceptable a couple of weeks ago, now, not at all. I’ve always been one to admit what I don’t know, and I don’t know, as most of us do not, how this will play out. Will we see a surge in people running to the emergency rooms, overwhelming our healthcare infrastructure and exhausting our healthcare workers? Will fatalities begin to pile up, expanding exponentially as this novel virus spreads like a silent, gaseous killer among the population?

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    Author and Activist Sue Katz Joins the One Thing or Another Podcast

    My guest today is author, activist, dancer and influencer Sue Katz. Sue has been a frequent contributor to LGBTSr as well as a prolific blogger at her site, Sue Katz: Consenting Adult. Her books include Lillian in Love, Lillian’s Last Affair, her newest short story collection, A Raisin in My Cleavage and the prescient Thanks but No Thanks: The Voters Guide to Sarah Palin.

    Join me as we chat about Sue’s personal and professional life, her years spent abroad, her martial arts mastery, and the state of the world as Sue sees it.

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    Ginny Brennan, Producing Director for Music Mountain Theatre, Joins the Podcast

    My guest this week is Ginny Brennan, Producing Director and a founder of Lambertville, New Jersey’s, Music Mountain Theatre. Join me as we talk about Ginny’s involvement, the creation of Music Mountain Theatre, and the invaluable contribution it makes to the community and beyond.

    Coming Up on the One Thing or Another Podcast:

    • Rick Rose for our February look back on politics, culture and more
    • Maribeth Fabrizio on Tiny Miracles Animal Rescue

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    One Thing or Another Podcast: An Interview with Author Ann Aptaker


    It’s a great pleasure to welcome author Ann Aptaker for the latest One Thing or Another interview. Ann is the author of the Cantor Gold crime series, featuring the inimitable Cantor Gold. Ann is also an art writer for various New York clients, and an adjunct professor of art and art history at the New York Institute of Technology. Join us as we discuss writing, lesbian fiction, Ann’s career, her creative process and much more.

    About Ann Aptaker

    Lammy and Goldie winner, native New Yorker Ann Aptaker’s first book, Criminal Gold, was a Golden Crown Literary Society’s Goldie Award finalist. Her next book, Tarnished Gold (book two in the Cantor Gold Crime Series), was honored with a Lambda Literary Award and a Goldie Award, the only book in the Lesbian mystery category to win both awards for the same book. The third book in the series, Genuine Gold, won the 2018 Goldie Award. Book four, the recently launched Flesh and Gold, is the newest in the ongoing series.

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    One Thing or Another: Chew On That

    By Mark McNease

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    “You can miss the color of someone’s eyes, or the shape of their nose, but a grin with no teeth dares you to ignore it.”

    You know you’re getting older when half your teeth have abandoned you, leaving your mouth like homeowners who’ve found a better neighborhood. You want them to stay. You offer incentives (“No more sugar, I promise!”), but they leave anyway, wiggling their way from the root up until they either fall out or get pulled out by a dentist who’s been lecturing you for ten years to use an electric toothbrush.

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    One Thing or Another: Cruise Control (All Aboard!)

    It’s always One Thing or Another… a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    By Mark McNease

    “There’s something very depressurizing about boarding a cruise ship. The daily, mundane, pressures of life that bear on you the rest of the time are suddenly lifted, falling away like a jacket let slip from your shoulders.”

    Spending time on a floating hotel was never high on my wish list. I no more imagined going on a cruise than I imagined climbing the pyramids at Machu Picchu or hiking the Appalachian Trail. I didn’t have anything against them, they were just things other people did, feature stories in travel magazines I read when I was still flying by choice and not necessity. Then I met the man I’ve spent the last twelve years with, and cruising entered my life. That can happen when we enter relationships: if you enjoy the unexpected, meet the person of your dreams.

    My first cruise was just three nights over a Labor Day weekend, out to some cay and back. I didn’t just like it. I loved it. Cruising quickly became a favorite way to vacation for me. I also like spending nights in hotels for some of the same reasons: no chores, no clean up, no appointments, unless it’s a massage or a shave/facial combination. Cruising is that times twenty, with the added bonus of feeling young at fifty-nine on a ship of retirees.

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    One Thing or Another: Not So Fast (Age and the Morning Routine)

    It’s always One Thing or Another … a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    By Mark McNease

    I hope my morning routine hasn’t stretched to an hour when I’m seventy, and I certainly hope I can accomplish it unaided. I’m trying.

    I used to be able to get up, shower, dress, and ready myself for another day faster than the opening theme song to the morning news. By the time the anchors announced the top stories, I was pouring my second cup of coffee and adjusting my tie, fully prepared to meet the demands of a stalled career.

    How does anyone without superpowers accomplish this? Was there a phone booth in the bathroom, into which I hurried one minute and emerged from the next scrubbed and presentable? Or was it youth itself? A youth that extended into my fifties before vanishing into the mists of a morning routine grown longer by the year?

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    One Thing or Another: Not Worth the Weight

    It’s always One Thing or Another … a lighthearted look at aging, life, and the absurdities of it all.

    By Mark McNease

    The food magically showed up at our front door, delivered by someone who, like Santa Claus, made their rounds unseen, past apathetic doormen and suspicious neighbors with insomnia.

    My Amazing Weight Loss Journey began five years ago. With great effort and dedication, I’ve managed to shed four pounds since that first fateful calorie count. How did I achieve this feat of negligible weight loss? I never thought you’d ask.

    It all started with a now-defunct company called Lean Chefs. For a reasonable fee, they delivered a day’s worth of prepared food while we slept: breakfast, lunch, dinner, and two yummy snacks. The food magically showed up at our front door, delivered by someone who, like Santa Claus, made their rounds unseen, past apathetic doormen and suspicious neighbors with insomnia. I would peer into the corridor first thing in the morning and there it was, a small black package at my feet, looking like something that might require a call to the bomb squad under normal circumstances. Inside it was the coming day’s food with an ice pack and an unspoken promise: eat these healthy provisions, and only these, and miracle weight loss will occur.